If Cliff is your master, he needs to be looking out for YOUR interests as much as you look out for his. And regardless of the dynamics of your relationship, you have to take care of you first. And I very much think this is a time you need to step back, let the boys take care of themselves and focus on you and your needs. Hopefully they'll get the message and step up and help you the way you've helped them.

*big, tight hugs*